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9 de October de 2026 at 13:38 #15053
Paul847ParticipantI just moved to a new place and my cat is hiding under the bed. I know it takes time but I’m not sure if I should be doing something different. Any tips? I’m probably overthinking it.
9 de October de 2026 at 13:57 #15057Mike38
MemberThe hiding under the bed part is normal, but I wouldn’t camp out in the room trying to coax them. My cat did the same thing after a move and I made the mistake of checking on him every hour. That just kept him spooked longer. Once I left him alone and just went about my normal routine, he came out on his own after about four days. What surprised me was that he adjusted to the new place faster than I expected, but he was still jumpy for a couple weeks after that. So hiding is one thing, being fully settled is another. I didn’t buy any special calming stuff, just kept his old blanket and food bowl in the same spots. That seemed to matter more than anything else.
9 de October de 2026 at 14:19 #15061
LiamWParticipantMine took about three weeks to stop treating the hallway like enemy territory. What actually helped was giving her one small room to start with instead of the whole place. I set up food, water, and a litter box in the bathroom and just left the door cracked. She slowly expanded her territory on her own schedule. Cats hate having a giant unfamiliar space dumped on them all at once. Once she claimed that little room, she started exploring the rest within a few days. So if your cat is under the bed, that is probably fine. The bigger issue is whether they are eating and using the box. If those are normal, the hiding is just them doing their thing.
9 de October de 2026 at 14:42 #15064Sophie Nguyen
MemberMine actually adjusted faster once I stopped giving her the whole place at once, but weirdly she hated being shut in a single room. What worked was leaving her carrier open in the living room with a worn shirt of mine. She was out and exploring within four days.
9 de October de 2026 at 15:12 #15067Riley1
MemberMine took about two weeks to come out during the day, but she still bolted under the couch whenever I dropped something. I just went about my normal routine and let her come to me. She was sleeping on my pillow by day ten.
9 de October de 2026 at 15:41 #15070
Emma ReadsMemberMine seemed happier once I put her blanket on the new couch.
9 de October de 2026 at 16:31 #15075Tessa Lane
MemberCats adjust on their own schedule, not yours.
9 de October de 2026 at 17:35 #15083Sant_five
MemberThe hiding is usually the easy part honestly. What caught me off guard was the second week. My cat came out, acted totally normal, ate, sat on the windowsill, and I figured we were done. Then a delivery guy knocked and she vanished for another four days. So it comes in waves more than one smooth adjustment.
What I did that seemed to help was keeping her stuff in the same spots. Same litter box position relative to the room, same food bowl corner, same scratching post by the door. Not sure it mattered to her, but she stopped pacing the kitchen at night after I did that.
Also, the first few days I sat on the floor reading instead of trying to pet her. She came to me when she was ready. That took about a week and a half before she’d sit next to me again.
Some cats just take longer. Mine is fine now but still hates the vacuum, new place or not.
9 de October de 2026 at 19:13 #15093Marcus Reed
MemberI’d just let the cat hide and not make a big production out of it. When I moved, mine stayed under the bed for a few days and only came out at night. I kept food, water, and the litter box nearby and basically ignored him except for talking in a normal voice. That worked better than trying to coax him out.
9 de October de 2026 at 20:30 #15102Kevin Rogers
MemberA week or so is pretty normal, but some cats take longer. Mine spent the first few days under the dresser and then just wandered out like nothing happened. Leaving a worn t-shirt of yours near the hiding spot helped, I think, but who knows. Just go about your day and let the cat come to you.
9 de October de 2026 at 21:45 #15112
Mike TurnerMemberMine hid for three days then acted like he owned the place. The real tell was eating and using the box again, not coming out. If that’s happening you’re fine.
10 de October de 2026 at 01:10 #15122
PixelKevinMemberI’d just leave the cat alone and keep the routine boring for a bit. When I moved, mine stayed under the bed for like four days and I mostly ignored him except for food and litter. He came out when he was ready.
10 de October de 2026 at 01:26 #15123Mark Carrell
MemberMine took about two weeks before she stopped bolting every time I stood up. The hiding was one thing, but she also went off her food for a few days, which worried me more. It sorted itself out once she picked a window spot as her own.
10 de October de 2026 at 01:40 #15124RonWeek
MemberI actually don’t think the hiding is the main thing to focus on. Mine adjusted to the new place way faster once I put her in one small room with her own stuff instead of giving her the whole apartment right away. The whole place seemed to overwhelm her more than the actual move did.
10 de October de 2026 at 03:01 #15133
Lily___MemberTwo weeks is a reasonable ballpark. Mine took closer to a month before she’d hang out in the open, but she was eating and using the box within a couple of days. The main thing I’d watch is whether your cat is still eating and drinking normally, not how much time it spends hiding.
10 de October de 2026 at 04:07 #15142Nina K.
MemberWhen I moved with my cat, the hiding part lasted way longer than the actual adjustment part. She was under the couch for almost a week but was totally fine once she started coming out at night to explore. I just kept her food and litter in the same spots and let her do her thing.
10 de October de 2026 at 05:29 #15151Liam Cross
MemberI don’t think the hiding spot itself tells you much, and I’d push back a little on the idea that you need to be doing something different. When I moved with mine last year, she picked the worst possible spot, behind the washing machine, and stayed there almost a week. I kept thinking I was messing it up by not coaxing her out enough. What actually seemed to matter was just being predictable. Same feeding times, same voice, sitting on the floor near her without reaching for her. She came out on her own schedule, not because I found the right trick. The one thing I’d pay attention to is whether she’s coming out at night when you’re asleep, because that’s usually a sign things are moving along even if she’s still skittish during the day. Some cats just take longer than others and there’s not a ton you can do to speed that part up.
10 de October de 2026 at 06:51 #15160Sarah J
MemberMine took almost three weeks to fully settle.
10 de October de 2026 at 07:01 #15161Elena Voss
MemberHiding under the bed isn’t the problem. Mine did that for a bit and turned out fine, so I wouldn’t read too much into where the cat parks itself. The thing I’d actually pay attention to is whether it’s eating and using the box.
10 de October de 2026 at 07:09 #15162Carla D.
MemberI’d say the whole “just give it time” thing gets pushed too hard. Mine actually did better once I stopped waiting around and just went about my normal routine, noise and all. She came out way faster than when I was tiptoeing around trying not to bother her.
10 de October de 2026 at 08:36 #15172Pete Tilbrook
MemberTwo weeks is optimistic, mine took way longer.
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